10 fears about asking for help
Having a disability or illness or a chronic illness probably means you need to ask for help more than you would like. We live in a society where independence is encouraged and personal accomplishments are praised. However, having a disability such as blindness or an illness that limits your ability to stand means you need to ask for help from time to time. When I start feeling defeated about this need, I find it helpful to remind myself that I did all of these things when I didn’t have limitations or I remind myself that I truly want to be independent and am not lazy. Our fears often stem from a sense of guilt or own anger turned inwards. This may manifest as 1 or more of the following fears about our situation
- I am too much trouble
- They will resent me
- People will think I’m lazy
- People won’t want to be my friend
- My request is an inconvenience
- I don’t deserve help
- They will complain
- I should do it myself
- I will loose my independence
- I am less of a person if I need help
Contact Kimberly to schedule an appointment for counseling at her office in Acworth or Cartersville. Call 678-936-6113